Valentine’s Day is said to be the most romantic day of the year, but a lot of us aren’t basic flowers-and-chocolates types of people. If you want to do something a little more special than the same old thing that everyone else does (we have Hallmark cards for that!), there’s a lot of edgy, fun, and absolutely still romantic ways to have a sexy and exciting V-Day.
Whether you embrace the day by trying a new toy or a new sex game, or do so via a gift — there’s many ways to be naughty and still share the love. There are a lot of kinky ways to celebrate Valentine’s Day. There’s also experiential options: you can go on a trip or do something really meaningful together that will bring your relationship to a whole new level.
The most important rule of the day is that there are no rules: Have fun and celebrate in a way that fits your relationship, not the cookie cutter ideal of everyone else.
If you are into a little Fifty Shades-type action, Valentine’s Day is a great time to purchase a new, personalized collar for your submissive, suggests Antonia Hall, MA, a psychologist, relationship expert and sexpert, and the award-winning author of The Ultimate Guide to a Multi-Orgasmic Life. Or maybe a fur-lined red collar to remind you both of your devotion.
The best kinky sex positions have the dominant partner on top. “Take control and pace between slow and faster rhythms to make your partner ache for more. Lie on your partner in missionary to remind them who’s boss, or take them from behind, which is a great position for some spankings and clitoris play,” says Hall.
Massage candles are made of soy wax, so their melt temperature is lower than conventional wax candles. “You can do the kinky ‘pour hot wax on your boo’ thing much more safely, and then, voila — it becomes warm massage oil! Sensual and sexual exploration may proceed,” says Carol Queen, PhD, and Good Vibrations Staff Sexologist. A blindfold used along with this is even kinkier. “This helps the recipient of the hot wax + massage focus on sensory input and makes the experience that much more sexy and intense.”
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But not in the way you think. “A boudoir photo shoot is a triple threat gift! It’s amazing foreplay — posing in sexy lingerie and feeling sexy, an opportunity to push your limits and play up your Fifty Shades fantasies in your naughtiest lingerie, and you get to keep the photos and relive the fantasy time and time again!” says Laurel House, an author, spokesperson, and dating coach, who personally recommends Jenny Taylor Boudoir Photography as a must-try.
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